Boban Stojanović - Working at the Margins
“I love the social margin; this is where the strongest desire to live dwells.”
Today we are honored to introduce Boban
Stojanović and spotlight his amazing advocacy efforts in Serbia – Boban is one of
5 incredible people who have been shortlisted for this year’s David Kato Vision & Voice Award.
Boban Stojanović was born in 1978 in Zaječar, a small city
in Eastern Serbia. Boban suffered mistreatment and abuse at the hands of his
alcoholic father growing up, and this early exposure to domestic violence prompted
him to get involved with activism at an early age. In his youth Boban worked
with local NGO’s countering violence against women.
During the nineties, as war in what was formerly Yugoslavia raged on, Boban
refused to join the army as a form of resistance to the ruling regime. Boban was one of the most prominent activists
to refuse serving in the army, and one of the loudest voices asking for
termination of mandatory army service.
During this time, Boban volunteered in refugee centers across
Serbia where he mainly worked with Roma children and children who had lost
parents in the war. Through this work he came into contact with peace activists
and began working alongside them toward non-violent social change.
In 2000 Boban moved to Belgrade where he soon came out as
gay among only a handful of other publicly recognizable LGBT activists and gay
people. Boban’s outspoken advocacy posed a considerable threat to his personal
safety and put him at great risk. He was physically assaulted in public several
times while receiving ongoing verbal harassment.
Boban’s home was attacked and vandalized twice, both in 2013 and 2014. In 2013
his home was set on fire and swastikas were spray painted on the walls. In 2014
unknown assailants broke the apartment windows by throwing stones. Boban and
his partner are now forced to live in secret at an undisclosed location. He has
filed several hundred criminal charges because of these threats, but only a
handful of them have been processed so far, yet the harassment has only
intensified.
In 2005, Boban founded the Queeria Centre. Beyond focusing on LGBT rights in
Serbia, the Queeria Center engages and increases awareness among Serbia’s
youth; promoting public education about LGBT issues. Through creative campaigns
to advocate LGBT rights, the Queeria Center works toward a more tolerant Serbian
society.
Boban was also very involved in promoting the Serbian Anti-Discrimination Law.
After intense debate and fierce opposition, Serbian Parliament passed the
Anti-Discrimination Law in 2009. Boban’s advocacy played an important role in
the process.
Due to his public activism, Boban was disowned by part of his
own family. In Serbia, this is the fate that awaits most of the people who are
courageous enough to come out publically.
For almost two decades of activism, Boban has supported every vulnerable
population in Serbia: National and religious minorities, women, children,
persons living with disabilities, and refugees. He especially focuses on
helping those who are doubly discriminated, individuals who are the most
marginalized and especially vulnerable: People living with HIV, sex workers, men
who have sex with men (MSM), and other queer populations.
In an interview Boban gave in 2013 he explained why he
supports those who are the most ignored and overlooked in society by saying, “I
love the social margin, this is where the strongest desire to live dwells,” A
powerful testament to the strength and character of those marginalized in
Serbian society.
The DKVVA is supported by a Secretariat based at the Global Forum on MSM & HIV (MSMGF). The MSMGF advocates for equitable access to effective HIV prevention, care, treatment, and support services tailored to the needs of gay men and other MSM, including gay men and MSM living with HIV, while promoting their health and human rights worldwide. You can find more information about the MSMGF at www.msmgf.org